A man in NC recently made headlines, he sued his wife’s affair partner for “alienation of affection” and won 750,000.00. In another headline, a BW sued her husbands AP for the return of items purchased for her during the affair, and some 4000.00 for repairs the WH made to the AP’s car during the time … More Affairs, Consequences and the Law
I have a bee in my bonnet (or had as this post started a while back). After my post about Trump and cheating in society, I had the mis-fortune of watching SE Cupp, a conservative pundit, blathering on about what she feels Melania should do (leave her husband), and also critiquing Hilary Clinton, dare I … More More on the subject……
I can say without any hesitation, the last several years of my life have been horribly difficult, the changes in my marriage, the loss of my dad….in some ways the loss of me as I had been for so long. I was not sad in the least to see 2018 go but I don’t want … More 2019…finally…lets hope for the best
Wow, it has been almost a year since my last post. Getting caught up in the day to day life, has taken focus off betrayal and onto living. Don’t get me wrong, there are still moments, hours that I defer back to DD. There are still the reminders and triggers, and measuring time in the … More The Gutsiest Thing….
Read an article the other day, an anonymous entry on MSN news from a man who cheated on his wife. As I read it, I came to realize that some cheaters just don’t fucking get it, they don’t get honesty, they don’t get commitment, they don’t get selflessness. Throughout his article (poised as a helpful missive) he … More Some just don’t fucking get it!
Just read a great post from The Aftermath on how she is managing her triggers. I have had my share of battling. In the first six months after D-day, they were hiding behind every corner waiting to get me. At first I was completely and utterly unarmed. They won each and every battle. After six … More Triggers – the ultimate battle
I have not written for sometime, and I have been feeling a need to update my story for those of you who have been finding my pages. I recall only too well, the hours and days after D-day that I constantly, compulsively combed the web looking for others, looking for hope, advice….anything. I have been … More Have Hope
Can I just start by saying FLASHBACKS SUCK! Have recently read another excellent post by Saving Shards and gosh…I know I have said it before but as much as we are all different….we are the same. I have had many flashbacks in the last few weeks. I guess the complete and utter despair of my father’s illness … More Flash Backs and Justice
I have not written for some time. My father died in April and I am reeling. Reeling from the months of watching him suffer and try to avoid the inevitable end. He was full of life and not wanting or ready to go in any way. I cared for him in every way, I’m reeling … More Soon it will be a year
In therapy we have had to discuss our sex life, hard task. I have always maintained that I am not a prude, always enjoyed sex and have had a wonderful and active past. My H maintains that one of his reasons for cheating is that our sex life had come to a halt. Wait a … More Sustained passion in Marriage -who is responsible and now what?